Wow. I didn't even look to see when the last time I posted was. I just decided that it was time for me to return because as usual, my brain is getting cluttered. I go on vacation to relax and clear my head and just be...and I come home completely cluttered. Does that happen to everyone?
Anyway, I will be making an effort to get back to this. I'm not sure if it's going to stick or fade as it keeps doing. Actually like everything. My writing, my photography, reading, everything I love has ebbs and flows. I move from one to the next in some weird cycle of my own and I think I am finally coming to terms with it.
I am who I am and I am finally settling in.
I know I have a lot to say but I had to start small before I dive in.
Anyway. Hello long lost blog. I am glad to be here. I'm glad you are still here for me.
We'll talk more soon.
Monday, April 6, 2015
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Relief.
That is what I feel.
Finally. Good Goddess almighty, finally.
I'm pretty sure that to finally get us to this place I made a decision that worked for us but in the long run will kick us in the ass at some point.
I knew we just had to get through May..and with this being the year of whatever will be, will be..we rolled with it. I made that promise to myself before the whole no overtime and job switch deal. Either way I can say one thing. That mentality is working for us so far. Everything that has come at us has worked out in some way or another each and every time. It has renewed my faith in the universe.
When I left my job at the hospital I forgot all about my retirement. It wasn't huge, but it wasn't small either. I, in the midst of all of this financial hell, got a letter about cashing it out.
So..I did what any other broke ass adult would do when left with a choice between another frozen dinner or being able to eat some damn chicken. I cashed it out. I'm sure in 40 years something will come up when I'm trying to retire and this measly little cash out will cause me to have to work an extra year...or next year during tax time. I might even go so far as to say we'll feel it at both points.
But dammit, I wanted some fresh chicken.
At the beginning my husband fought me but as the bills were only slowly getting caught up and repair and medical bills were piling up (and let me tell you, we're not even sick people. Dental exams, wisdom tooth extraction, and a basic yearly exam are effing expensive!) I felt we didn't have a choice unless we still wanted to feel it clear into December.
All I can say, two weeks later, is that was a welcome relief. All of our bills are not only caught up but paid a month ahead, including our mortgage. We were able to do some seriously expensive car repairs without throwing up..only a little nausea. I also was able to get a new washing machine since the one we were using was at least 20 years old and wasn't draining so all of our "clean" clothes had a slight aroma that would remind one of a sewer.
In the end the only things that I would consider "blowing" the money on was replacing the camera I sold and have regretted from the second I did it and a bottle of perfume. To be fair even though I paid full price for the perfume there were so many gifts with purchase from things like M.A.C and LeMer and Cartier and a lot more..hell, I even got a double sided BBQ spatula tossed in for free, I really couldn't turn it down. I've been waiting a year for a sale to buy it. The freebies were good enough for me, who turns down a free BBQ spatula?
I don't recommend to the general public to cash out your retirement in exchange for smelling pretty but for us, it felt like the only choice we had to just be done with out predicament and still end up with savings.
Overall I am happy. I am finally back to sleeping good, on really clean sheets that smell like laundry soap. I also had some real beef hotdogs for dinner tonight. I've had my fill of chicken.
Life is good.
Finally. Good Goddess almighty, finally.
I'm pretty sure that to finally get us to this place I made a decision that worked for us but in the long run will kick us in the ass at some point.
I knew we just had to get through May..and with this being the year of whatever will be, will be..we rolled with it. I made that promise to myself before the whole no overtime and job switch deal. Either way I can say one thing. That mentality is working for us so far. Everything that has come at us has worked out in some way or another each and every time. It has renewed my faith in the universe.
When I left my job at the hospital I forgot all about my retirement. It wasn't huge, but it wasn't small either. I, in the midst of all of this financial hell, got a letter about cashing it out.
So..I did what any other broke ass adult would do when left with a choice between another frozen dinner or being able to eat some damn chicken. I cashed it out. I'm sure in 40 years something will come up when I'm trying to retire and this measly little cash out will cause me to have to work an extra year...or next year during tax time. I might even go so far as to say we'll feel it at both points.
But dammit, I wanted some fresh chicken.
At the beginning my husband fought me but as the bills were only slowly getting caught up and repair and medical bills were piling up (and let me tell you, we're not even sick people. Dental exams, wisdom tooth extraction, and a basic yearly exam are effing expensive!) I felt we didn't have a choice unless we still wanted to feel it clear into December.
All I can say, two weeks later, is that was a welcome relief. All of our bills are not only caught up but paid a month ahead, including our mortgage. We were able to do some seriously expensive car repairs without throwing up..only a little nausea. I also was able to get a new washing machine since the one we were using was at least 20 years old and wasn't draining so all of our "clean" clothes had a slight aroma that would remind one of a sewer.
In the end the only things that I would consider "blowing" the money on was replacing the camera I sold and have regretted from the second I did it and a bottle of perfume. To be fair even though I paid full price for the perfume there were so many gifts with purchase from things like M.A.C and LeMer and Cartier and a lot more..hell, I even got a double sided BBQ spatula tossed in for free, I really couldn't turn it down. I've been waiting a year for a sale to buy it. The freebies were good enough for me, who turns down a free BBQ spatula?
I don't recommend to the general public to cash out your retirement in exchange for smelling pretty but for us, it felt like the only choice we had to just be done with out predicament and still end up with savings.
Overall I am happy. I am finally back to sleeping good, on really clean sheets that smell like laundry soap. I also had some real beef hotdogs for dinner tonight. I've had my fill of chicken.
Life is good.
Sunday, May 19, 2013
Blub
I need to get something off my chest. My exceptionally freckled, semi wrinkled and sun worn chest.
It's a lazy Sunday in these parts. The husband and kids are gone, the sun is shining, it's freaking 87 degrees outside. FINALLY.
The thing I need to get off my chest as I set here wasting my afternoon away on Pinterest, which subsequently leads me on little blog walks. Those walks lead me to the lives of people I don't know and am pretty sure I wouldn't really like in real life anyway.
These people are perfect. They cook perfectly, they clean perfectly, their lives are perfectly organized in perfectly written blog posts and they have perfectly executed photographs of themselves to show us all how perfect they really are.
I'm sure this will be a shock to any readers I do have. I am not perfect.
Today, as I sit home alone when I should be enjoying my time to myself, the usual thoughts run through my muddled brain.
First is money. Always money.
Second is my weight. This is where it gets really depressing...because our money woes aren't depressing enough, right?
I always thought my weight issues are because I am lazy. And love fried foods. And live for carbs.
Today I was faced with a much harsher reality. I'm not lazy.
Do you know how I know I'm not lazy? Because when I got hungry I didn't go for the lazy woman's route of grabbing a yogurt or string cheese. Instead I came across a recipe for eggless cookie dough you could just mix and eat that sounded too good to be true.
You already know how this ends. I didn't do the 10 second chore of grabbing either of the previously mentioned foods. I stood in that damn kitchen and took ten minutes to mix the eggless dough and had that instead. At least I didn't eat all of it. Yet.
I have two things I can take from this. I can take away the knowledge that I'm really not lazy. That's a relief, I was beginning to think I would have to break the habit of doing absolutely nothing around here.
I'm completely dry of self control. I wish this were the problem when it came to good things, like I wouldn't be able to stop myself from folding all of the laundry when it's clean or I would go crazy if I couldn't get that back corner of the fireplace mantle while dusting.
Nope. It's 100% related to food.
Ugh. Real life on my end of this blog is so not perfect.
It's a lazy Sunday in these parts. The husband and kids are gone, the sun is shining, it's freaking 87 degrees outside. FINALLY.
The thing I need to get off my chest as I set here wasting my afternoon away on Pinterest, which subsequently leads me on little blog walks. Those walks lead me to the lives of people I don't know and am pretty sure I wouldn't really like in real life anyway.
These people are perfect. They cook perfectly, they clean perfectly, their lives are perfectly organized in perfectly written blog posts and they have perfectly executed photographs of themselves to show us all how perfect they really are.
I'm sure this will be a shock to any readers I do have. I am not perfect.
Today, as I sit home alone when I should be enjoying my time to myself, the usual thoughts run through my muddled brain.
First is money. Always money.
Second is my weight. This is where it gets really depressing...because our money woes aren't depressing enough, right?
I always thought my weight issues are because I am lazy. And love fried foods. And live for carbs.
Today I was faced with a much harsher reality. I'm not lazy.
Do you know how I know I'm not lazy? Because when I got hungry I didn't go for the lazy woman's route of grabbing a yogurt or string cheese. Instead I came across a recipe for eggless cookie dough you could just mix and eat that sounded too good to be true.
You already know how this ends. I didn't do the 10 second chore of grabbing either of the previously mentioned foods. I stood in that damn kitchen and took ten minutes to mix the eggless dough and had that instead. At least I didn't eat all of it. Yet.
I have two things I can take from this. I can take away the knowledge that I'm really not lazy. That's a relief, I was beginning to think I would have to break the habit of doing absolutely nothing around here.
I'm completely dry of self control. I wish this were the problem when it came to good things, like I wouldn't be able to stop myself from folding all of the laundry when it's clean or I would go crazy if I couldn't get that back corner of the fireplace mantle while dusting.
Nope. It's 100% related to food.
Ugh. Real life on my end of this blog is so not perfect.
Sunday, April 14, 2013
Life
Life is weird..and fun..and not so fun..and really amazing.
I'm still not sure how I feel about my new job. I don't think any co worker enjoys working there so I'm not sure how I can. I feel like it's a job. I finally got my first paycheck and it made me feel a little better about things financially but we're treading lightly.
We still have a way to go. So far we still have the house and cars so that's good news. We've gotten pretty crafty at meals and how to amp up the cool factor in the back yard since we plan on treading lightly for most of the year.
We have been feeling really lucky. When things get really tough, good things just seem to happen. Out of the blue. For no reason. I'm not going to look any gift horse in the mouth. I feel so grateful to the universe for looking out for us.
Here is the only thing that I'm not feeling so lucky about. Vacations.
We like taking trips. We like seeing and experiencing new things. Because of the state of our bank account we're doing things a little differently this year. We have decided to try camping. I have not been camping since I was little. Every single experience and memory I have of camping is terrible. I HATED going when I was little. I was the one that always ended up hurt, covered in poison ivy, covered in bug bites, woken up in a pool of water because the tent leaked...you name it. I can't recall any good camping trips.
I'm taking those memories and turning them around. I will have a few luxuries..as in air mattresses for me and the husband and the kids will get cots for cheaper than sleeping bags.
We've booked our first camping trip for Memorial Day weekend for a whopping $18 a night. That's cheap right? Let's just hope that we can live through two nights in a tent and have at least a few minutes of fun while we're at it.
All of our vacations have been great experiences. My kids, 99% of the time, have so much fun and turn into best friends when we're off to new places and seeing new things. I can't let those go just because we're broke. I love those moments with my family.
If it weren't for Pinterest I would be lost trying to figure out what to do to make us WANT to hang out in our back yard or make our camping trips cool. Let's just say I have a few projects sitting on the burners and I hope I have the time and energy to get them done. I'm glad there are so many crafty and imaginative people in the world. I am not one of them. I can get inspiration and ideas from others, I can copy a lot of stuff but to stare at an empty wine bottle and think "Man oh, man the things I could do with that!!" is not what I can do. I stare at an empty wine bottle and think "Man oh, man..I need a nap" if it's right after it's been emptied or I think it means a trip to the recycle plant. I'm not a creative person by nature. If it weren't for the fabulous thoughts of other people I would be miserable about the state we're in having to stay home for the summer instead of hopeful and thinking we will actually enjoy ourselves.
In other news, we are both ready to move out of Michigan. There is nothing holding us here, except this damn house. We're going to finish up a couple of things we have going on and then we're listing it no matter what. I'm guessing we'll have to go for a short sale if the last listing agent we had in here was right (although I think she was smoking meth with her figures and comps) but if that what it's going to take, then that's what we're going to do. The husband has never before actually said the words that he's ready to go but a couple of weeks ago that changed and it made me very happy.
We're both going to start job searches now and see where that search leads. I hope it takes us somewhere wonderful. I'm ready to find a forever job and get a good retirement going. That's my goal. I want to find a good place to work, a good place to live with good neighbors and kids for my kids to play with. We just want more. Who doesn't.
I still remain optimistic and I really hope that the universe continues to look out for us while we wade our way through this temporary river of financial muck.
I'm still not sure how I feel about my new job. I don't think any co worker enjoys working there so I'm not sure how I can. I feel like it's a job. I finally got my first paycheck and it made me feel a little better about things financially but we're treading lightly.
We still have a way to go. So far we still have the house and cars so that's good news. We've gotten pretty crafty at meals and how to amp up the cool factor in the back yard since we plan on treading lightly for most of the year.
We have been feeling really lucky. When things get really tough, good things just seem to happen. Out of the blue. For no reason. I'm not going to look any gift horse in the mouth. I feel so grateful to the universe for looking out for us.
Here is the only thing that I'm not feeling so lucky about. Vacations.
We like taking trips. We like seeing and experiencing new things. Because of the state of our bank account we're doing things a little differently this year. We have decided to try camping. I have not been camping since I was little. Every single experience and memory I have of camping is terrible. I HATED going when I was little. I was the one that always ended up hurt, covered in poison ivy, covered in bug bites, woken up in a pool of water because the tent leaked...you name it. I can't recall any good camping trips.
I'm taking those memories and turning them around. I will have a few luxuries..as in air mattresses for me and the husband and the kids will get cots for cheaper than sleeping bags.
We've booked our first camping trip for Memorial Day weekend for a whopping $18 a night. That's cheap right? Let's just hope that we can live through two nights in a tent and have at least a few minutes of fun while we're at it.
All of our vacations have been great experiences. My kids, 99% of the time, have so much fun and turn into best friends when we're off to new places and seeing new things. I can't let those go just because we're broke. I love those moments with my family.
If it weren't for Pinterest I would be lost trying to figure out what to do to make us WANT to hang out in our back yard or make our camping trips cool. Let's just say I have a few projects sitting on the burners and I hope I have the time and energy to get them done. I'm glad there are so many crafty and imaginative people in the world. I am not one of them. I can get inspiration and ideas from others, I can copy a lot of stuff but to stare at an empty wine bottle and think "Man oh, man the things I could do with that!!" is not what I can do. I stare at an empty wine bottle and think "Man oh, man..I need a nap" if it's right after it's been emptied or I think it means a trip to the recycle plant. I'm not a creative person by nature. If it weren't for the fabulous thoughts of other people I would be miserable about the state we're in having to stay home for the summer instead of hopeful and thinking we will actually enjoy ourselves.
In other news, we are both ready to move out of Michigan. There is nothing holding us here, except this damn house. We're going to finish up a couple of things we have going on and then we're listing it no matter what. I'm guessing we'll have to go for a short sale if the last listing agent we had in here was right (although I think she was smoking meth with her figures and comps) but if that what it's going to take, then that's what we're going to do. The husband has never before actually said the words that he's ready to go but a couple of weeks ago that changed and it made me very happy.
We're both going to start job searches now and see where that search leads. I hope it takes us somewhere wonderful. I'm ready to find a forever job and get a good retirement going. That's my goal. I want to find a good place to work, a good place to live with good neighbors and kids for my kids to play with. We just want more. Who doesn't.
I still remain optimistic and I really hope that the universe continues to look out for us while we wade our way through this temporary river of financial muck.
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Stress
Let me just tell you about what makes me one of those (not so) fabulous atomic mothers.
I don't like to air dirty laundry out in public but this is my outlet, my journal of sorts.
I started a new job not so long ago. Two weeks to be exact. I have some good things that I most definitely love about the change and I have some things that I don't care for at all. Let me start with the good. Good is always a good place to start.
I'm home every weekend with the kids. I get to see sporting events and play games and watch movies. When the weather warms up I will get to go for walks and go to the beach and be a real mom again. I get to be home in the evenings and make dinner and talk about school and all the guts of being a mom. I get to be here. Really here. I like that.
Now the bad. And it's pretty bad, to me anyway. I know that my troubles are trivial to most but to me they are Mt. Everest right now. They're a conundrum. They have no solution right now. Right now. It will come. I'm sure I won't like it, but the solution will come.
I am anchored to a desk. I despise desks. I am alone and basically quarantined to a small room in the middle of a warehouse. My actual job, albeit new and different, is not going to be challenging. I'm going to be bored and when I get bored...bad things happen. I don't make a very good bored person.
I get paid once a month. This is where most of my stress and troubles are stemming. I tried to do the responsible thing. I tried to hang on at the hospital until the very last moment, trying to be a good adult and make sure there were no lapses in health and dental insurance. I held on and then started right away at the new place. I find out there's still going to be a one month lapse in insurance. My last paycheck was nothing because of the insurance premiums and union dues. Before all of this I had worked a lot of overtime. A LOT of overtime. In December my job changed, I was replaced by a computer program. Now, I knew that the loss of my overtime would pinch a bit. What I failed to realize was how much I actually made with that overtime. Pinch is the least of my worries.
I feel that I am currently failing my family. Due to the last four months of no overtime I fell behind on almost every single bill we have. On top of it I had to buy a new wardrobe for this new job. My husband told me to take our tax return to get what I needed. I didn't even use a quarter of it. I didn't buy anything over $15 and most things weren't even new. Now on top of the loss of my overtime, I have to go an entire month without a paycheck. I have to tell you...there is no stress like jumping every time you hear a noise outside...not that you think it's a burglar, but that you think they've come to repossess your car. I have never had my phone ring so much as it does now. I stress over every penny spent on milk or gas or bread.
I am not myself lately. I think stress does that to people. Actually I know that stress does that to people. I don't think we are in over our heads with debt. We don't have credit cards, our mortgage isn't high at all (we are not living in the lap of luxury, that's for sure), we don't drive extravagant cars. I honestly don't get why we're so far in the hole right now. We don't go blow money all willy, nilly.
I know we'll get out of this, it's an adjustment getting used to no overtime AND getting paid every four weeks but I just hope we can do it with both cars still parked in the driveway, our lights still on, and food in the fridge. Until then I'm just going to stress and worry that somehow I'm failing my family. I'm hoping that during the interim of all this chaos will also come an opportunity to really get to know my family and learn how to do more things together around the house.
Ugh. Being this atomic mom right now kind of sucks.
I don't like to air dirty laundry out in public but this is my outlet, my journal of sorts.
I started a new job not so long ago. Two weeks to be exact. I have some good things that I most definitely love about the change and I have some things that I don't care for at all. Let me start with the good. Good is always a good place to start.
I'm home every weekend with the kids. I get to see sporting events and play games and watch movies. When the weather warms up I will get to go for walks and go to the beach and be a real mom again. I get to be home in the evenings and make dinner and talk about school and all the guts of being a mom. I get to be here. Really here. I like that.
Now the bad. And it's pretty bad, to me anyway. I know that my troubles are trivial to most but to me they are Mt. Everest right now. They're a conundrum. They have no solution right now. Right now. It will come. I'm sure I won't like it, but the solution will come.
I am anchored to a desk. I despise desks. I am alone and basically quarantined to a small room in the middle of a warehouse. My actual job, albeit new and different, is not going to be challenging. I'm going to be bored and when I get bored...bad things happen. I don't make a very good bored person.
I get paid once a month. This is where most of my stress and troubles are stemming. I tried to do the responsible thing. I tried to hang on at the hospital until the very last moment, trying to be a good adult and make sure there were no lapses in health and dental insurance. I held on and then started right away at the new place. I find out there's still going to be a one month lapse in insurance. My last paycheck was nothing because of the insurance premiums and union dues. Before all of this I had worked a lot of overtime. A LOT of overtime. In December my job changed, I was replaced by a computer program. Now, I knew that the loss of my overtime would pinch a bit. What I failed to realize was how much I actually made with that overtime. Pinch is the least of my worries.
I feel that I am currently failing my family. Due to the last four months of no overtime I fell behind on almost every single bill we have. On top of it I had to buy a new wardrobe for this new job. My husband told me to take our tax return to get what I needed. I didn't even use a quarter of it. I didn't buy anything over $15 and most things weren't even new. Now on top of the loss of my overtime, I have to go an entire month without a paycheck. I have to tell you...there is no stress like jumping every time you hear a noise outside...not that you think it's a burglar, but that you think they've come to repossess your car. I have never had my phone ring so much as it does now. I stress over every penny spent on milk or gas or bread.
I am not myself lately. I think stress does that to people. Actually I know that stress does that to people. I don't think we are in over our heads with debt. We don't have credit cards, our mortgage isn't high at all (we are not living in the lap of luxury, that's for sure), we don't drive extravagant cars. I honestly don't get why we're so far in the hole right now. We don't go blow money all willy, nilly.
I know we'll get out of this, it's an adjustment getting used to no overtime AND getting paid every four weeks but I just hope we can do it with both cars still parked in the driveway, our lights still on, and food in the fridge. Until then I'm just going to stress and worry that somehow I'm failing my family. I'm hoping that during the interim of all this chaos will also come an opportunity to really get to know my family and learn how to do more things together around the house.
Ugh. Being this atomic mom right now kind of sucks.
Saturday, March 9, 2013
Decent...
So my first foray into meal planning was, over all, a success. We had dinner on the table by 6 pm every night. All of the meals I made tasted good. Some will be put into rotation. The Black Bean Taco Soup? Was yummy...but tasted more like chili than taco soup.
We haven't gotten through all of the meals but so far I'm pretty impressed with how easy it was for me.
As far as my first week at my new job, I think it went well. I'm definitely more busy than I was at the hospital which is good. I don't have time to dwell on the possibility of being laid off. The people I'm working with are really nice so far so that's also good. I think once I get the hang of a new field of work and all the lingo that go with one. I'll be golden.
Nothing else to report really. We're still working on our downstairs bathroom and the kitchen.
I'm going to try my hand at meal planning again only putting a different spin on it. I'm going to plan out our meals based on what's on sale this week and see if we can do it a little cheaper than last week.
I didn't think $200 was a budget friendly way of meal planning but maybe I'm just being unrealistic about the whole thing. It came out to just over $18 a meal for a family of 4 but we only had leftovers half the time for lunch the following day. I just want to see if I can get the cost down a little bit without giving up real home cooked dinners for my family.
The saga continues.
We haven't gotten through all of the meals but so far I'm pretty impressed with how easy it was for me.
As far as my first week at my new job, I think it went well. I'm definitely more busy than I was at the hospital which is good. I don't have time to dwell on the possibility of being laid off. The people I'm working with are really nice so far so that's also good. I think once I get the hang of a new field of work and all the lingo that go with one. I'll be golden.
Nothing else to report really. We're still working on our downstairs bathroom and the kitchen.
I'm going to try my hand at meal planning again only putting a different spin on it. I'm going to plan out our meals based on what's on sale this week and see if we can do it a little cheaper than last week.
I didn't think $200 was a budget friendly way of meal planning but maybe I'm just being unrealistic about the whole thing. It came out to just over $18 a meal for a family of 4 but we only had leftovers half the time for lunch the following day. I just want to see if I can get the cost down a little bit without giving up real home cooked dinners for my family.
The saga continues.
Sunday, March 3, 2013
Newbie
That's what I am. A newb. At least at meal planning and preparation. I can see it becoming a certified Olympic sport. That shizz is draining but I can already see where it's going to be worth it.
I start a new job tomorrow. A real one. Not that the one I had before wasn't real but this one will actually take up a lot of daytime hours. Hours I used to use for shopping and cooking and cleaning.
Ok.
I've stopped laughing now. The shopping part is true but the rest of the time was spent on my ass either in bed sleeping for days or on the couch watching...whatever is on in the middle of the day.
Anywhoo. I wanted a daytime job so I could be home and spending quality time with my family and if I'm spending an hour plus a day cooking alone in the kitchen, it defeats the purpose of being home for quality time.
I, as usual, was scouring Pinterest for easy recipes. I came across a pin that linked to this blog post. It gives the recipes for 8 dinners for a family of four with two leftover lunches. The food all looked good and fairly affordable so I decided to give it a try. I have to start somewhere, right?
Right away I can see how this is going to save time daily. Not only in the prepping and cooking department, but in clean up as well. You won't have all these pots and pans sitting in the sink every day. I don't plan on making all of these in the crock pot. I have a few in mind to bake in the oven, not that I'm anti crock pot, I just don't want that big ass thing claiming a permanent spot on my counter top. Until they make some affordable ones that are cute and coordinate with the rest of my permanent appliances..like the toaster.
I actually ended up with 11 dinners. Well..technically ten and a half. I followed all the recipes with only a couple of minor modifications. I followed the shopping list exactly, all modifications were made at the last minute because of my own weirdness and forgetfulness.
We have two dinners of ribs. My grocer only had a 6 pound pack of ribs so I went with it. This is where I have to make a decision. Is my family made up of a bunch of pigs or is my interpretation of a serving size a bit skewed? This was the one and a half meals. We have one full dinner and then a few extra ribs that we'll have for dinner tonight since all of the kids are off with friends. Perfect! Also, I swore we had liquid smoke when I was at the store. I was so sure of it that I didn't even think twice about it. Until I went to grab it. I had to wing it. I added a bit of Worcestershire sauce and a teeny bit of vinegar. Not smokey tasting so I went with tangy instead. For the hashbrown sides I forgot the sour cream so I couldn't get those prepped ahead of time like I wanted.
Most of these meals have, what I consider to be, very small portion sizes of meat. We love our meat here. I went with it in most cases. I don't think we're going to starve to death once we add in sides and maybe even a dessert or two.
I also expanded the chicken alfredo to two meals as well. I ended up using fresh broccoli because I could only find frozen cuts and I'm a snob. I only want the crowns. The stems are gross. We had some leftover frozen turkey from a week ago so I have one chicken alfredo and one turkey alfredo. Also, instead of dumping both jars of sauce into one bag like the recipe states, I used one jar and added a cup of milk to it instead. That's how I got two meals out of that one.
The french dip sandwiches was also converted into two meals. I think three pounds of roast is too much for a sandwich. Maybe my kids just don't really like sandwiches or they don't like really stuffed ones, I don't know. I had a roast that was 3.25 lbs. I cut it into two roasts, one at 2 lbs and the other the remaining 1.25. The two pound roast is for the french dip sandwiches, the remainder was tossed into another bag with some leftover carrots, potatoes, onions, garlic, and chicken broth and is just a basic roast dish. Not fancy but it'll work in a pinch.
I also went ahead and prepped some snacks for the kids and for me. I'm a snacker. I freaking love snacks. I will take 10 snacks over a meal any day of the week. The kids like stuff that's easy to grab and is at least a little sweet.
I have the usual bananas and clementine oranges on hand. We always have those. I also was able to get three tubs of strawberries thanks to the grocer having them on sale for a buck a piece. I washed and halved them, put them into individual serving tupperware bowls and sprinkled them with a teeny bit of brown sugar, cinnamon, and granola. I also got two cucumbers and using another Pinterest recipe, mixed them up with olive oil, lemon juice, salt, pepper, and chili powder. I am planning on making some crispy edamame too, the kids will devour that.
I can't vouch for the taste of any of it. That will come next week.
Here's to hoping it works and it all tastes good!
I start a new job tomorrow. A real one. Not that the one I had before wasn't real but this one will actually take up a lot of daytime hours. Hours I used to use for shopping and cooking and cleaning.
Ok.
I've stopped laughing now. The shopping part is true but the rest of the time was spent on my ass either in bed sleeping for days or on the couch watching...whatever is on in the middle of the day.
Anywhoo. I wanted a daytime job so I could be home and spending quality time with my family and if I'm spending an hour plus a day cooking alone in the kitchen, it defeats the purpose of being home for quality time.
I, as usual, was scouring Pinterest for easy recipes. I came across a pin that linked to this blog post. It gives the recipes for 8 dinners for a family of four with two leftover lunches. The food all looked good and fairly affordable so I decided to give it a try. I have to start somewhere, right?
Right away I can see how this is going to save time daily. Not only in the prepping and cooking department, but in clean up as well. You won't have all these pots and pans sitting in the sink every day. I don't plan on making all of these in the crock pot. I have a few in mind to bake in the oven, not that I'm anti crock pot, I just don't want that big ass thing claiming a permanent spot on my counter top. Until they make some affordable ones that are cute and coordinate with the rest of my permanent appliances..like the toaster.
I actually ended up with 11 dinners. Well..technically ten and a half. I followed all the recipes with only a couple of minor modifications. I followed the shopping list exactly, all modifications were made at the last minute because of my own weirdness and forgetfulness.
We have two dinners of ribs. My grocer only had a 6 pound pack of ribs so I went with it. This is where I have to make a decision. Is my family made up of a bunch of pigs or is my interpretation of a serving size a bit skewed? This was the one and a half meals. We have one full dinner and then a few extra ribs that we'll have for dinner tonight since all of the kids are off with friends. Perfect! Also, I swore we had liquid smoke when I was at the store. I was so sure of it that I didn't even think twice about it. Until I went to grab it. I had to wing it. I added a bit of Worcestershire sauce and a teeny bit of vinegar. Not smokey tasting so I went with tangy instead. For the hashbrown sides I forgot the sour cream so I couldn't get those prepped ahead of time like I wanted.
Most of these meals have, what I consider to be, very small portion sizes of meat. We love our meat here. I went with it in most cases. I don't think we're going to starve to death once we add in sides and maybe even a dessert or two.
I also expanded the chicken alfredo to two meals as well. I ended up using fresh broccoli because I could only find frozen cuts and I'm a snob. I only want the crowns. The stems are gross. We had some leftover frozen turkey from a week ago so I have one chicken alfredo and one turkey alfredo. Also, instead of dumping both jars of sauce into one bag like the recipe states, I used one jar and added a cup of milk to it instead. That's how I got two meals out of that one.
The french dip sandwiches was also converted into two meals. I think three pounds of roast is too much for a sandwich. Maybe my kids just don't really like sandwiches or they don't like really stuffed ones, I don't know. I had a roast that was 3.25 lbs. I cut it into two roasts, one at 2 lbs and the other the remaining 1.25. The two pound roast is for the french dip sandwiches, the remainder was tossed into another bag with some leftover carrots, potatoes, onions, garlic, and chicken broth and is just a basic roast dish. Not fancy but it'll work in a pinch.
I also went ahead and prepped some snacks for the kids and for me. I'm a snacker. I freaking love snacks. I will take 10 snacks over a meal any day of the week. The kids like stuff that's easy to grab and is at least a little sweet.
I have the usual bananas and clementine oranges on hand. We always have those. I also was able to get three tubs of strawberries thanks to the grocer having them on sale for a buck a piece. I washed and halved them, put them into individual serving tupperware bowls and sprinkled them with a teeny bit of brown sugar, cinnamon, and granola. I also got two cucumbers and using another Pinterest recipe, mixed them up with olive oil, lemon juice, salt, pepper, and chili powder. I am planning on making some crispy edamame too, the kids will devour that.
I can't vouch for the taste of any of it. That will come next week.
Here's to hoping it works and it all tastes good!
Friday, March 1, 2013
Dear Universe,
Holy crap has it been awhile. I really have no excuse other than, as usual, I have so much to say but it's all over. I'm positive I've developed ADD or something similar. I can't seem to focus on life much. I'm really hoping that's going to change soon.
We have been doing so much work on the house lately because we wanted to try and put it up for sale but we found out today that's not happening. We can't even get a third of what we need to break out of here and get a leg up so we're going to stick it out for a few more years. Big A still has a couple years of high school left so that gives us a bit more time. On the plus side, my house is freaking spotless right this second and it gives me the time to finish out the basement like I wanted AND get my super sized bedroom back. And...I don't have any dishes or laundry to do...for five minutes anyway.
I have Middle A on my mind constantly. I'm pretty sure he's the reason I can't seem to keep focus on anything else. At least I seem to be getting to talk to him more. I'm sure that's his dad's way of gloating over the court ruling. Either way, I don't care as long as I can talk to him.
Today was a big day for Little A but I'm sure she'll never remember. We went to Lowes to pick up the remaining tile for the kitchen, then out to a quick dinner since I had been up for about 38 hours straight and was NOT cooking, then we made a pit stop in Kohl's. Little A needed her first bras. Oh Lordy. I am pretty sure I'm not ready for the baby to be getting all grown up. Changes in girls are scary and gross. She's already an attitude terror, I'm not medicated enough to deal with puberty right now.
Again.
In other news, I start my new job on Monday. I'm still not exactly sure how I'm feeling about it. I know I'm excited because I get to work real people hours and I'm positive I won't miss my three day work weeks terribly until summer sets in and I just want to go to the lake. I'm going to miss the people I've come to know and love over the last six years at the hospital. I really hope we're able to stay in touch. It's hard when you are on what feels like an alternate universe that's laid over the top of the real one but flipped backwards. You get used to doing grocery shopping at midnight and paying bills at 4 am. Life is easier that way. It's harder when you try to have friends outside of that universe, no one understands why you get pissed when the UPS man drops packages off at 11am and rings the bell or why you come unhinged when your husband comes home for lunch at 1 pm and just slams things around in the kitchen thinking he's being oh so quiet.
I already feel as if this year is flying by at warp speed.
It's March 1st already. Where the hell did February go? Wasn't it just New Years?
I am trying my best to keep a positive outlook on things. I am going to make an effort to keep up on here. It's therapeutic to try to force myself to focus long enough to get some jumbled thoughts out. I'm holding tight to my resolution to not have any resolutions this year and it's going to be the year of whatever will be, will be. I think I'm doing pretty good just rolling with it.
Today I'm going to enjoy my last day to myself off. I'm not sure how but I'm sure it involves a mixed drink (maybe a couple) possibly a book and definitely a trip to the goodwill to see if I can find a solution to my growing nail polish obsession. I have everything in my underwear drawer right now except underwear. Next up on my list after I get that cleaned out, go buy some underwear.
We have been doing so much work on the house lately because we wanted to try and put it up for sale but we found out today that's not happening. We can't even get a third of what we need to break out of here and get a leg up so we're going to stick it out for a few more years. Big A still has a couple years of high school left so that gives us a bit more time. On the plus side, my house is freaking spotless right this second and it gives me the time to finish out the basement like I wanted AND get my super sized bedroom back. And...I don't have any dishes or laundry to do...for five minutes anyway.
I have Middle A on my mind constantly. I'm pretty sure he's the reason I can't seem to keep focus on anything else. At least I seem to be getting to talk to him more. I'm sure that's his dad's way of gloating over the court ruling. Either way, I don't care as long as I can talk to him.
Today was a big day for Little A but I'm sure she'll never remember. We went to Lowes to pick up the remaining tile for the kitchen, then out to a quick dinner since I had been up for about 38 hours straight and was NOT cooking, then we made a pit stop in Kohl's. Little A needed her first bras. Oh Lordy. I am pretty sure I'm not ready for the baby to be getting all grown up. Changes in girls are scary and gross. She's already an attitude terror, I'm not medicated enough to deal with puberty right now.
Again.
In other news, I start my new job on Monday. I'm still not exactly sure how I'm feeling about it. I know I'm excited because I get to work real people hours and I'm positive I won't miss my three day work weeks terribly until summer sets in and I just want to go to the lake. I'm going to miss the people I've come to know and love over the last six years at the hospital. I really hope we're able to stay in touch. It's hard when you are on what feels like an alternate universe that's laid over the top of the real one but flipped backwards. You get used to doing grocery shopping at midnight and paying bills at 4 am. Life is easier that way. It's harder when you try to have friends outside of that universe, no one understands why you get pissed when the UPS man drops packages off at 11am and rings the bell or why you come unhinged when your husband comes home for lunch at 1 pm and just slams things around in the kitchen thinking he's being oh so quiet.
I already feel as if this year is flying by at warp speed.
It's March 1st already. Where the hell did February go? Wasn't it just New Years?
I am trying my best to keep a positive outlook on things. I am going to make an effort to keep up on here. It's therapeutic to try to force myself to focus long enough to get some jumbled thoughts out. I'm holding tight to my resolution to not have any resolutions this year and it's going to be the year of whatever will be, will be. I think I'm doing pretty good just rolling with it.
Today I'm going to enjoy my last day to myself off. I'm not sure how but I'm sure it involves a mixed drink (maybe a couple) possibly a book and definitely a trip to the goodwill to see if I can find a solution to my growing nail polish obsession. I have everything in my underwear drawer right now except underwear. Next up on my list after I get that cleaned out, go buy some underwear.
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Thanks
I haven't written in awhile. For various reasons I would start a post, then delete, then write, then save, then delete. As usual I was at a loss for words.
I find I'm back to not being able to shut my brain off. There is just so much crap swirling around in there.
I just popped a batch of cupcakes in the oven and decided I'd give myself the 25 minutes on the timer to just write.
Today, I guess a couple of days late, I realized how thankful I am for my life. For my family. They never think I'm weird..well, not often anyway.
My husband didn't question me when I bought two jumbo boxes of diapers and wipes to donate. He gave me a look that I know well, the "You know we're not made of money, right?" but he never said it. He gets points for that...or maybe the points should be awarded because he knows better than to argue with me. Either way, he gets them.
We finally made it home after grocery shopping and dropping the diapers off and I grabbed a bottle of champagne, the iPad, some candles and hightailed it up to the bathroom. I wanted to just relax and finish a book I've been working on for two weeks. For cripes sake, it's only a 350 page book, no reason to take two weeks to read. I was left alone for two hours, three quarters of that bottle of champagne, and burned a dozen candles to nothing but puddles. This comes on the back end of them letting me shop all night and day on Friday and again on Saturday, then letting me sleep for 16 hours...straight...uninterrupted.
I cannot tell you how lucky I am. As I sat there and soaked after I finished my book it hit me as it usually does, all of a sudden. It resides in the back of my mind. My family, for all of their quirks and annoyances, is actually pretty kick ass. We're so very lucky and I think we all forget that during the day to day grind. Not that we ever forget completely because I don't believe that for a second.
My children are healthy and for the most part, happy. My husband loves me and I love him. We have a solid house and jobs to pay the bills and still have a little extra at the end. We have struggled in the past, we still struggle now but we are still so very lucky.
I'm always so reflective at this time of year. Thanksgiving to New Years for me is strange. It's not really bittersweet. It's more...solemn than that but in a festive way. I'll admit it, I'll sit here and gaze at our tree and every year I love it. I love it because it's something we do as a family. We pick it out, we set it up, we decorate it, and admire our handy work. We all take care of it while it's up. It's so much more than a tree...it's time spent with the kids. It makes me miss Avery more and more. It's hard because his birthday has just passed. I didn't get to have dinner with him on Thanksgiving. I won't see him on Christmas day. I'm still thankful. He's still healthy and I know he loves me.
If you are reading this then you are lucky. You have a computer, and internet, and electricity. I joined a local group on facebook recently. I found it through the Momastery blog and their helping hands listing. I searched for someone local that I could possibly help. I was helped once and I will never, ever forget it. I'll tell the story.
A few years ago, the year after we bought the house, I still couldn't seem to find a full time job. I was working part time at Bath and Body Works at the local mall. I worked with good people..hard working people. I worked as many hours as they'd let me. I didn't bring home much because it was minimum wage, but it was something. I don't recall now what had come up right before Christmas, but it was expensive. We were not going to have any money for presents. Literally, not so much as a candy cane. I was so upset. I got a call one night a week before Christmas from one of my co workers at the mall asking me to come up for a meeting. I only live a few blocks away so I went. When I got there she had the back of her car loaded with gifts for my kids. I cried. Hard.
I have never forgotten that. I want to pay her back somehow. A nice trip to the spa, a great dinner out, something. She quit that job and I haven't seen her since. I wanted to pay it forward if I could not pay it back. It wasn't a lot, but to that woman that needed the diapers, it was enough. I've vowed to get as involved as I can with her group to try and help the overwhelming number of homeless people that live all around me.
I want to try to remember, every day, how thankful I should be for all the things I do have.
I find I'm back to not being able to shut my brain off. There is just so much crap swirling around in there.
I just popped a batch of cupcakes in the oven and decided I'd give myself the 25 minutes on the timer to just write.
Today, I guess a couple of days late, I realized how thankful I am for my life. For my family. They never think I'm weird..well, not often anyway.
My husband didn't question me when I bought two jumbo boxes of diapers and wipes to donate. He gave me a look that I know well, the "You know we're not made of money, right?" but he never said it. He gets points for that...or maybe the points should be awarded because he knows better than to argue with me. Either way, he gets them.
We finally made it home after grocery shopping and dropping the diapers off and I grabbed a bottle of champagne, the iPad, some candles and hightailed it up to the bathroom. I wanted to just relax and finish a book I've been working on for two weeks. For cripes sake, it's only a 350 page book, no reason to take two weeks to read. I was left alone for two hours, three quarters of that bottle of champagne, and burned a dozen candles to nothing but puddles. This comes on the back end of them letting me shop all night and day on Friday and again on Saturday, then letting me sleep for 16 hours...straight...uninterrupted.
I cannot tell you how lucky I am. As I sat there and soaked after I finished my book it hit me as it usually does, all of a sudden. It resides in the back of my mind. My family, for all of their quirks and annoyances, is actually pretty kick ass. We're so very lucky and I think we all forget that during the day to day grind. Not that we ever forget completely because I don't believe that for a second.
My children are healthy and for the most part, happy. My husband loves me and I love him. We have a solid house and jobs to pay the bills and still have a little extra at the end. We have struggled in the past, we still struggle now but we are still so very lucky.
I'm always so reflective at this time of year. Thanksgiving to New Years for me is strange. It's not really bittersweet. It's more...solemn than that but in a festive way. I'll admit it, I'll sit here and gaze at our tree and every year I love it. I love it because it's something we do as a family. We pick it out, we set it up, we decorate it, and admire our handy work. We all take care of it while it's up. It's so much more than a tree...it's time spent with the kids. It makes me miss Avery more and more. It's hard because his birthday has just passed. I didn't get to have dinner with him on Thanksgiving. I won't see him on Christmas day. I'm still thankful. He's still healthy and I know he loves me.
If you are reading this then you are lucky. You have a computer, and internet, and electricity. I joined a local group on facebook recently. I found it through the Momastery blog and their helping hands listing. I searched for someone local that I could possibly help. I was helped once and I will never, ever forget it. I'll tell the story.
A few years ago, the year after we bought the house, I still couldn't seem to find a full time job. I was working part time at Bath and Body Works at the local mall. I worked with good people..hard working people. I worked as many hours as they'd let me. I didn't bring home much because it was minimum wage, but it was something. I don't recall now what had come up right before Christmas, but it was expensive. We were not going to have any money for presents. Literally, not so much as a candy cane. I was so upset. I got a call one night a week before Christmas from one of my co workers at the mall asking me to come up for a meeting. I only live a few blocks away so I went. When I got there she had the back of her car loaded with gifts for my kids. I cried. Hard.
I have never forgotten that. I want to pay her back somehow. A nice trip to the spa, a great dinner out, something. She quit that job and I haven't seen her since. I wanted to pay it forward if I could not pay it back. It wasn't a lot, but to that woman that needed the diapers, it was enough. I've vowed to get as involved as I can with her group to try and help the overwhelming number of homeless people that live all around me.
I want to try to remember, every day, how thankful I should be for all the things I do have.
Thursday, August 23, 2012
I'm on this bandwagon. I'm having the best ride too.
I'll tell you why.
We're on a budget, I mean, who isn't these days? I love changing things in my house. My husband can attest to that. I think I have him painting a different room every few months. I can't help myself. Our home is a work in progress and I'm not quite comfortable here yet. By the time I get there I'm sure it will be time to move, but the good news is we'll be able to take almost all of our projects with us.
I'm very careful about that. Basically I'm staging my home to be sold..but only a few things will have to stay. Like the deck we'll put on, the new kitchen..which I'm convinced will single handedly sell this house. I'm dying for a $400 light from Pottery Barn. If I'm lucky enough to get my hands on it..that baby is going where ever I go, but the deck will stay.
I've had some great dinners thanks to Pinterest. Next up we're going for some small projects that have a big impact. Right now I still have two dozen wine bottles sitting in my dining room waiting to be made into tiki torches that will attach to our privacy fence. If I could find more replacement wicks that project would move along a lot faster.
Tonight I was looking specifically at bedroom decor on there. A few months, maybe even a year back, my husband decided he wanted our bedroom downstairs. We went from having about 800 square feet and a king sized bed to 144 square feet and a queen. Needless to say...it's not working. I've lost more than half my dresser space, a ton of closet space...and don't even get me started on the loss of sleeping space.
We hemmed and hawed over moving back to the larger room. Currently occupied by an electric fireplace, a ping pong table, couch, and tv entertainment center. All for the kids, that coincidentally never use any of it. The cost is what was getting us. We have to go out and buy all new furniture. Have any of you priced king sized beds lately? It's ridiculous.
Cue Pinterest.
I've managed to come up with a few ideas that I'm hoping make it more affordable. It's going to take a lot of work but in the end I think it's going to be great to have something so customized without the custom price tag. My husband and I have a very different idea of what we like but I think there's a way to blend it. It's called rustic chic. Nick is more of a straight up country look kind of guy. That stuff in my house makes me want to vomit. If there's ever a cow (unless it's a cute little cream container) in my kitchen, smack me. I'm all about the shabby chic. I like comfortable and neutral with pops of color here and there.
I'm hoping to combine a few different ideas that I've seen on there to give us both what we want for a cheap price. Like the reclaimed barn door headboard. We know a few old barns that are falling apart so this part should be easy enough, right? That gives Nick his country. I saw the idea of stapling fabric to box springs and adding furniture legs to give you a nice base without the need of a frame. Bonus! This is how I can add my shabby chic without spending a ton of extra money on a bed frame.
I can also hit up yard sales and Goodwill for some old dressers. I can repaint them to match and voila! New dressers without the new dresser price tag. Snap up a great area rug somewhere. This is where I'm sure I'll spend full price unless I get lucky at TJ Maxx or someone has a ton clearanced out but I'm okay with spending a bit of change as long as when I go, I can take it with me.
I'm excited about it. It's going to give us something to do together that we'll both love when we're all done.
Have any of you actually made anything you've seen on Pinterest? How'd it turn out?
Those are my random Wednesday night thoughts.
I'll tell you why.
We're on a budget, I mean, who isn't these days? I love changing things in my house. My husband can attest to that. I think I have him painting a different room every few months. I can't help myself. Our home is a work in progress and I'm not quite comfortable here yet. By the time I get there I'm sure it will be time to move, but the good news is we'll be able to take almost all of our projects with us.
I'm very careful about that. Basically I'm staging my home to be sold..but only a few things will have to stay. Like the deck we'll put on, the new kitchen..which I'm convinced will single handedly sell this house. I'm dying for a $400 light from Pottery Barn. If I'm lucky enough to get my hands on it..that baby is going where ever I go, but the deck will stay.
I've had some great dinners thanks to Pinterest. Next up we're going for some small projects that have a big impact. Right now I still have two dozen wine bottles sitting in my dining room waiting to be made into tiki torches that will attach to our privacy fence. If I could find more replacement wicks that project would move along a lot faster.
Tonight I was looking specifically at bedroom decor on there. A few months, maybe even a year back, my husband decided he wanted our bedroom downstairs. We went from having about 800 square feet and a king sized bed to 144 square feet and a queen. Needless to say...it's not working. I've lost more than half my dresser space, a ton of closet space...and don't even get me started on the loss of sleeping space.
We hemmed and hawed over moving back to the larger room. Currently occupied by an electric fireplace, a ping pong table, couch, and tv entertainment center. All for the kids, that coincidentally never use any of it. The cost is what was getting us. We have to go out and buy all new furniture. Have any of you priced king sized beds lately? It's ridiculous.
Cue Pinterest.
I've managed to come up with a few ideas that I'm hoping make it more affordable. It's going to take a lot of work but in the end I think it's going to be great to have something so customized without the custom price tag. My husband and I have a very different idea of what we like but I think there's a way to blend it. It's called rustic chic. Nick is more of a straight up country look kind of guy. That stuff in my house makes me want to vomit. If there's ever a cow (unless it's a cute little cream container) in my kitchen, smack me. I'm all about the shabby chic. I like comfortable and neutral with pops of color here and there.
I'm hoping to combine a few different ideas that I've seen on there to give us both what we want for a cheap price. Like the reclaimed barn door headboard. We know a few old barns that are falling apart so this part should be easy enough, right? That gives Nick his country. I saw the idea of stapling fabric to box springs and adding furniture legs to give you a nice base without the need of a frame. Bonus! This is how I can add my shabby chic without spending a ton of extra money on a bed frame.
I can also hit up yard sales and Goodwill for some old dressers. I can repaint them to match and voila! New dressers without the new dresser price tag. Snap up a great area rug somewhere. This is where I'm sure I'll spend full price unless I get lucky at TJ Maxx or someone has a ton clearanced out but I'm okay with spending a bit of change as long as when I go, I can take it with me.
I'm excited about it. It's going to give us something to do together that we'll both love when we're all done.
Have any of you actually made anything you've seen on Pinterest? How'd it turn out?
Those are my random Wednesday night thoughts.
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